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04-04-2013
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hey nothing wrong with a little discussion-promoting.

i'd probably agree with mstk. communication which goes along with honesty. small things can really really add up.

EDIT: to elaborate, i feel like i kind of let small things add up in my recently ended relationship of >2 years. when i started having concerns that i might not want to be with her, i kind of just kept it to myself. i broke up with her pretty out of the blue. her biggest complaint was that i didn't really bring anything to the light, but i didn't really feel like it was necessary because i wanted to just supress it in hopes that it would go away. sometimes it did go away, but it wasn't a permanent thing.

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Communication is definitely key. That, and honesty. When you are having the two go hand-in-hand, I think you're pretty set.

So you broke up with her because you were thinking of wanting to have relations with other women?

I can see her point of view. She is right to be upset. Given the length of the relationship and the fact that you were even in the relationship to begin with, it was a bit disrespectful not to communicate with her and let her know what your feelings were on the relationship. It would have at least given her a chance to either improve what she had control over in the relationship or it would just given her a bit of cushion when you would finally break up with her.
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trust and loyalty.
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Communication is definitely key. That, and honesty. When you are having the two go hand-in-hand, I think you're pretty set.

So you broke up with her because you were thinking of wanting to have relations with other women?

I can see her point of view. She is right to be upset. Given the length of the relationship and the fact that you were even in the relationship to begin with, it was a bit disrespectful not to communicate with her and let her know what your feelings were on the relationship. It would have at least given her a chance to either improve what she had control over in the relationship or it would just given her a bit of cushion when you would finally break up with her.
well our situation is just super bizzare honestly.

We went to the same school, I had to leave earlier this semester to live at home for lymphoma treatment. School is four hours away so we would see each other every second weekend or so. I'm going to chicago, myrtle beach and europe this summer which is about 8 of the 11-12 weeks of summer. She has a big internship 8-5 on weekdays on top of that. So we really just were not in a position of being able to see one another until next school year basically and I didn't want that. I didn't want the responsibility of trying to find time to skype her in europe and then her being let down because I'd have other things to do.

It would be great when we were together, but then when we were apart the conversation would always get back to the subject of how badly we hate the distance. So it really wasn't just so I could go out and bang sluts, I do still care about her but we are both still very young (I'm 20 and she's 19). I just felt it would be best to end things at a good time rather than having them get super shitty later on and end up hating each other. But I do accept the fact that she might decide she hates me eventually, which obviously I will have brought upon myself.

So all of that stuff on top of the fact that I'm about to be done with cancer and just kind of want to start a new chapter in my life. Which she didn't really see at first but now the bigger picture is starting to come into play for her I think.
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Lol, I hope not. I try not to rush into relationships.
i meant next boy in general, whether it be serious or not


xyox, dont know if i read wrong but are you driving to her work, drinking and smoking and then driving back? ill have to spank you. dat mean send spank after you when he in heat
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For sure trust and communication. Those are the two major things all relationships need to be able to function well and healthy.
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communication, trust, loyalty, honesty. these are all automatic responses to that question that i even thought of immediately

but lets not forget love and passion my people
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yeah the sex needs to be there. the buttsex
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xyox, dont know if i read wrong but are you driving to her work, drinking and smoking and then driving back? ill have to spank you. dat mean send spank after you when he in heat
I drive there, have a couple drinks while I chill and I stop drinking about an hour before I have to leave (would never let myself get drunk), drive to wherever I'm dropping her off at, smoke in the parking lot (she has a super low tolerance so she gets baked while I only get a slight buzz). Chill there for a few minutes and the buzz starts to go away then go home. I'm pretty much completely sober whenever I'm driving.

I can't say there haven't been "those times" though :'(
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